i love it so much i have used it everyday i have plenty of toys but this one is the best the only bad part is its more of a clit pleaser the dildo has more vibration than the butterflies on the other hand the pros is it dosnt get hot like most vibrators so you can play as long as you wish use the butterfly kiss combined with silk lube the best clit pleasure i have experienced from a vibrator it feels like it's made of some sort of rubber which gives it an even better feeling you can adjust the speeds fast slow pulse i dont care for the pulse speeds if this is your first time i would advise you start with the low and work your way to high overall im having a pleasureable experince with my butterflies kiss