My wife and I have never used a sex/pleasure toy before and was recommended by the store manager to try this one. I was wowed by the styling and many functions at the store and when we brought it home, was even more impressed. After the initial awkward moment of feeling a vibrating object between our bodies, we were able to relax and really enjoy the we vibe. The relatively small size makes it very versatile and can be used in all sorts of positions. And the packaging makes it extremely easy to hide in plain sight. If you haven't purchased a toy before, try this one. Well worth it!