My husband bought this for me as a surprise for my birthday, so I decided to wear it out the night that we went to celebrate. Of course I gave him the remote. None of the people we were eating with could hear the vibrations, but at times id have to bite my lip from how good it felt. Overall, it's comfortable, can be used from a good distance, and definitely feels amazing. Although it is very expensive it is worth the money and will lead to a lot of random sex when you wear it out.