My husband and I picked this kit up about 3 months ago and absolutely love it. The set up looked daunting at first, but it turned out to be really simple and when you are done using it you can just hide it under the mattress. The cuffs are strong yet soft enough to not rub or pinch. The adjustable straps make it so you can create as much tension as you would like. Once you get it set up and try it out it is very non-threatening and is a good beginners kit. If you are creative you can come up with numerous different positions to tie your lover down. Overall I am thrilled with how much we love this kit and would recommend it to anyone who is curious about the bondage side of things.