The G-spot has gotten a lot of press lately, as some scientists have dared to say that their studies prove that the G-Spot does exist.
Hi. I’m a woman. I have found my G-spot. Multiple times. I found it years ago, but I like to re-discover it on a regular basis, both on my own and with my partner. I happen to need toys to get to it on my own, but oh, when I do? WOWzas!
So please don’t tell me I don’t have a G-spot. Could you imaging if someone told you that you didn’t have nipples, or that they weren’t meant to be sexual? Or that your neck/ears/collar bone weren’t really sensitive to kissing, because they couldn’t prove exactly WHY they were sensitive? Pshaw.
Next week, I’ll write more about the medical side, but let’s talk about the people side first. Who here has either found/stimulate their own G-spot, or perhaps that of a partner? Raise your hand.
You look pretty silly sitting in front of a computer raising your hand, but see? Lots of people have played with a G-spot, whether their own, or one belonging to someone else. You’ve felt the fabulously ridged while slightly squishy tissues. You’ve heard the moans made by the owner of the G-spot. Possibly, maybe you’ve even seen someone ejaculate (aka “squirt” or “gush”) from said stimulation of the G-spot. YOU know the G-Spot exists, I know the G-spot exists, so why are people trying to tell us other wise?
It’s true, it’s not always easy to find. The tissues making up the G-spot only becomes filled with blood to become engorged and therefore more feel-able when someone is turned on. This means that if you’re at the gyno, unless you have a medical fetish that is making you aroused, the likelihood of them feeling your G-spot is pretty slim. So how does one find it?
When you’re turned on (maybe already post orgasm #1?), now is the time to look. Don’t look if you’re bored, or in a hurry, or stress. Wait until you’re all hot and bothered, and then take a g-spot toy (like JeJoue’s new G-Ki) or your partners fingers, as it can be pretty hard to find it with our own fingers, given the angle. Now lube ‘em up, and slowly slide them in. Wiggle. A lot. Why? Cause it feels good. Now have your partner curl their fingers upwards towards your stomach, or tilt the toy that direction and press. You need pressure, so super soft toys won’t cut it. Try firmer silicone, glass, metal, wood or ceramic toys. Move the fingers or the toy around until you feel a different sensation that usual. Some people might feel for a moment like they have to pee, others just feel a much different sensation.
Voila, you have found it!
Not everyone find it on the first try, not everyone can find theirs at this point in their life, and not everyone loves G-spot stimulation. It certainly isn’t the end all, be all of sex. However, don’t you try to tell me that I don’t have one, because I KNOW I do. I’ve found it. Have you found yours?
-Shanna
This post is in a short series of posts about the G-Spot as Fascinations teams up with JeJoue in their campaign to prove the G-spot exists. Keep reading for more on the G-spot, and the chance to win a fabulous G-spot toy!
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