We all know how much breaking up sucks. Rejection is devastating no matter which side of it you’re on. But, initiating it seems to be what really throws people into a frenzy. Hence the ridiculous lies we tell each other in order to slither out of a relationship…gracefully. Below are some of the most common break up fibs. If you’ve heard them, or spoke them out of your mouth, please share!
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Ask Meg: How Do I Tell Someone I Have An STD?

by Meg on February 15, 2012

Meg:

I’m a 38-year-old man who’s been dating a great woman for a few months. We have so a lot in common and have been spending a ton of time together. I met her kids and really like them. This just shows how much I’m into her. My dilemma is about sex. We haven’t had it yet, but it’s came close. So what’s the deal? I have herpes. I’m humiliated to tell her and I’m worried I’ll lose her. I know I have to tell her because I don’t want to put her at risk and I want to have an honest relationship.

-Stuck
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This morning I woke up to a lovely surprise. A friend left a homemade bracelet on my porch.  Gestures like that just make the sun shine a little brighter, you know? So, now I’m rocking a fab bracelet and silly smile. My new jewels got me thinking – about romance and the fine line that lies between sweet and syrupy overkill. Well, that and the fact that Valentine’s Day is less than a week away. This “holiday” is quite tricky, for both genders, but I think especially for the guys. Let’s admit it ladies, we – along with Lifetime TV – give mixed signals. Let me help. Below are five romantic gestures that will go unappreciated.
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Ask Meg is a new series in which a reader/customer writes in to our love expert, Meg, with a relationship/sex question. Kind of like Dear Abby, but with more sex talk! Meg has her master’s degree in clinical psychology, works as a crisis counselor and has over 15 years of experience in behavioral health, specializing in relationships and sex. Fun facts about Meg: She once worked as a counselor in a men’s prison, judges people by their astrological sign, is addicted to exercise, and would give up a body part in exchange for a martini (shockingly, not dirty.) Okay, enough. Here’s our very first question:

 
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The best thing about working at Fascinations during Valentine’s Day is seeing all the cute couples come in together, or separately, to get that special something for each other. While you can find hundreds of great gifts at Fascinations every day, if you have a Valentine’s theme in mind, you’re probably thinking about a plethora of hearts. Here are a few heart-themed gifts that are sure to show your partner that you love them, and then help you express that love in the bedroom.

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Have You Been Single Way Too Long?

by Meg on February 3, 2012

There’s nothing wrong with being single, but come on, let’s face it, with Valentine’s Day right around the corner, being part of a couple is nice. Sometimes we’re alone because we actually want to be. Other times, however, it’s because dating freaks us the hell out, so we hide in our singledom like the Sock Monster hides in the dryer. Nothing wrong with hiding out for a little while, but it becomes a problem when you lose yourself in a bowl of cookie dough and cat hair. Check out the signs of being single too long, below. [click to continue…]

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Great Gifts for Both of You this Valentine’s Day!

by Laura January 31, 2012
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While it can be fun to spoil your partner with things that are just for them this Valentine’s Day, it’s also fun to pick out gifts that are fun for both of you! Luckily, Fascinations carries tons of items that are made for couples to enjoy that will turn a typical Valentine’s Day into a [...]

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How To Know If You’re Really, Really In Love. Like, For Real.

by Meg January 24, 2012

I’ve been asked, as well as done the asking, about how to know if it’s really love.  I’ve since realized if you have to ask, there’s no way it can be love. Because when you’re in love with someone, you just know, right? I mean, love changes everything, even your physiology – sometimes annoyingly so. [...]

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Sexual Compatibility: Are You a Thrill Seeker or Comfort Creature?

by Meg January 20, 2012

It’s pretty easy to know whether or not you’re an adventurous person who will jump onto a rollercoaster without signing a will and saying your last goodbyes. It’s also fairly easy to know if you’re an adventurous eater. You know, a person who braves the eats like Andrew Zimmerman.  The adventure line blurs right around [...]

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Fascinations FAQ: Tightening Creams

by Laura January 17, 2012
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While it’s much more fun to talk about the “do’s” of sex, there are some questions Fascinations associates are frequently asked that require a more nuanced explanation of why you should “just say no.” Vaginal tightening creams are one of the items we are asked for in our stores, and many people are confused when [...]

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